I didn’t expect to land in a profession where I would be surrounded by so many female leaders, mentors and colleagues. My career path was originally pointed in a very different direction — one where being a girl was almost a novelty. In high school and college, I was in engineering, math and physics classes where I was one of a few, or sometimes the only female. My first two “big girl” jobs were in offices where there were exactly two women – the receptionist and me. When I shifted gears to PR where my first boss and almost all of my entry level peers were women, it was definitely a different groove.
The women who joined the very first International Women’s Day gathering in 1911 probably felt they, too, were in a different groove. It was a time when large groups of women didn’t gather often, and they were brought together for the purpose of demanding rights and equality. I think they would be thrilled to know that I have the right to vote and the right to hold public office – two things they fought for. They might be gratified to know that I had the freedom to pursue my interests. I was not discouraged to attend college or to take certain classes, I did just fine in a male-dominated office setting and I was able to support myself independently as I started a new career path – surrounded by female colleagues and leaders.
They would be distressed to hear that another of their goals – to fight discrimination in the workplace – is still a work in progress. I can personally attest to “everyday” discriminatory behaviors that happen in subtle and obvious ways. In one of the less subtle examples, I was told once that a CEO “wouldn’t appreciate my estrogen.”
As we think about creating a culture and environment where we try to raise everyone up, what can we do for ourselves and for each other?
- Find an advocate – someone who cares about your success, makes sure you’re heard and recognized, gives you honest feedback and keeps you focused.
- Be an advocate – speak others’ praises in front of colleagues and clients and help them see things in themselves that maybe they don’t.
- Emulate the best, learn from the worst – it’s easy to learn from the good ones, but you can also learn a lot from bad partners and bosses. Knowing what NOT to do and how NOT to make people feel are some of the valuable lessons you can carry with you.
- Don’t dismiss the moments that make you say – REALLY?? – if you find yourself or see a colleague being disrespected, not acknowledged, dismissed, interrupted or on the receiving end of any discriminatory behavior, address the situation.
When it comes to embracing equity and creating a culture of inclusion, there’s always an opportunity improve. Let’s work together to make it better.
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